Chapter 1639 Age Is Just A Number:>Ep1

• Couples with large age gaps have some sort of assumptions that are automatic whenever people look at them or think about them. If it's a young man and an older woman, she's a cougar. If its an older man with a younger woman, she's a gold digger and he's her sugar daddy. If it's two gay men people assume a sissy-boy/daddy relationship. With lesbians, I have no idea, but I'm sure there are some untoward implications.
• Because of that, I tried to stick with dating people in my age range once I turned 40. As a gay man, there are expectations when you try to get into a relationship with a younger guy. Casual sex is something else entirely, though. Shy young virgins often turn to older men to pop their cherries, since they tend to be gentler. I don't mind being gentle, so I have deflowered a handful of freshly legal boys. That's not the extent of it. In the age of Tinder and Grindr, it's not that difficult to get laid when the need arises. Finding love and commitment is a different story.
• That's probably why I sort of stopped dating recently. As a 42-year-old man, it seemed too late to start looking for a life partner. I wasn't bitter about that, I just sort of accepted it. I had a comfortable job, working as a chef at a quasi-fancy restaurant in Atlanta, friends I could turn to, and a sexual drive not nearly what it used to be. Bachelorhood seemed like the logical conclusion.